Sumertime and the river is spreading...

I heard lots of complaining about the lack of real summer heat this June. Well, we are officially into the summer season (as of Sunday) and we have heat. What a difference a few days make! With this heat, thunderstorms, and lots of mosquitoes, which is why I could easily go back to the unseasonably cool weather we experienced earlier.

I did mention thunderstorms and lots of local flooding, didn't I? The river continues to rise and is spreading allover the area. The deluge of last Friday night has created a nightmare for homeowners, the local grade school, and many municipalities throughout the county. Add the road construction that is currently underway and travel remains the pits for all the residents.

Don't get me wrong- I love summer. Slowing down, if only a little, taking some time to be outside (humidity and bugs aside), or enjoying local seasonal events. Sometimes, we look forward to things like summer vacation so much that we forget about the here and now.

Every day has good and bad in it, but if we focus on what we are doing while we are doing it- life will not throw us the curves that sideline most of us. Waiting for the perfect time, person, or situation only puts us in a holding pattern that we may never leave until we make the big exit at the end of our lives. Let's not waste the time we have left.
Until next time...

Jeff Hoke...a music man

A friend and mentor to my daughter died last Sunday afternoon from complications from diabetes. The scary thing about this death- he had no idea that he had it. At 42 years old, Jeff Hoke was taken from us way too soon.

An amazing musician and a gifted percussionist he taught many young people including my daughter not only to trust their talent, to always do your best, and to love the music they made. He expected them to be disciplined, but allowed them to be themselves. Each one of these were major gifts. His humor, tempered his anger if you did not work at their craft he was passionate about, but he loved them all as family. He made them better people and good musicians. I will be grateful I shared a little bit of his world.

Jeff leaves a wonderful wife, Beth, and two daughters (Sarah and Kelly), his parents, and immediate family, but there are a legion of others who loved him well, who miss him greatly, and will keep his life-work going because it mattered so much to him.

Yep, you never know when life is going to throw you a curve or cut it short. Let the people you love know that they mean the world to you, take time to enjoy and play when you can, be passionate about something, and don't be afraid to take a chance.

When someone leaves us there is always great sorrow because a piece of us has gone away with their passing. They may be in a better place with all the answers, while we remain on Earth to pick-up the pieces and ask why this happened to us.

Let's take each minute as the gift it is and remember we only have the present- the past and future is just an illusion. BE HERE NOW! As Jeff always said, "Make It Happen". Words to live by, because you never know.

Bernie Madoff and other dastardly criminals in the news.

I don't know about you, but these criminals who apologize in court for their past transgressions are making me a little sick. Is there anyone who take them seriously? Hearing Bernie Madoff, plead guilty and his less than heartfelt apology to the victims who lost their life-savings to his avarice and seeing his contrite demeanor in front of the judge was not at all convincing. This has to be just a manipulation to preserve the wealth in his family's name, which hopefully will never come to pass.

I am sorry- the performance was not that good. It sure isn't going to help his reputation in any way. His wife, children, and grandchildren have a lot of baggage to deal with, while Bernie will be living out his life in some federal prison. How could he do that to them?

OJ Simpson is another one who cried like a baby in court saying, he did not know he was doing anything illegal. What the heck?! Do you know he still receives a pension from the National Football League? Even worse, he does not have to give a cent of that to the Brown or Goodman family toward the 30 million dollars he still owes them. What kind of life has he given his children? Maybe, his crime this time was not horrible, but at least his cocky attitude will be shelved for awhile.

So, how about Rob Blagoijevich and his media tour or speech to the Illinois Legislature before he was impeached? Do I really have to say more?
Until next time....

We Finally Have A Winner!

A new day is upon us and I could not be any happier. A much needed change has swept this country and the result is President-Elect Obama. I admit I had goosebumps when darkened my ovals in the voting booth. As I waited to cast my ballot in the machine, I really had tears in my eyes. Not since, my first presidential election way back in 1972 have I felt so full of promise and truly inspired with hope for the future.

With the election over, I also experienced a general sense of relief from all those ads that seemed to permeate television and radio for what seems like years. I think there should be a specific time limit for all campaigning. Maybe a month before a primary and then not until after the political conventions. Local candidates for office may have one ad per day from primary to election day. Do you know what I'm saying?

The only thing that disappoints me is the space is already filling-up with holiday commercials. If you know me, you have heard my tirade on the Christmas season starting right after Halloween. Geez,Louise- it is irritating. Until next time...

Election Madness!!

Things are so strange these days. The economy is wallowing in danger of collapse, our country is involved in two wars, and we are suffering from global warming, but we still are obsessed with Sarah Palin's wardrobe expenditures, who used to be an anarchist in the 60's, and the co-hosts who are arguing on The View. Wake-up People!!

Nothing is going to get better unless we are willing to put some effort into our problems and prioritize when finding the solutions. Aren't you as sick as I am on character assassinations between political candidates or playing the blame game with who is responsible for what fiasco in the government? How about if someone just anyone would tell me how they are planning on fixing our domestic issues, leading us to peace in my lifetime, and stopping poverty in the United States and than the world!!!

We know what went wrong in the last eight years, so let us figure out what is going right, work on that, and implement the changes we all want to see for the next four!

Until next time...

It's been a long time...

Okay, it's been so long since I have posted to my own blog that I could not remember my own password. Talk about bad!! I cannot believe the summer is over. I would like to say I accomplished a lot in the last four months, but it would be a complete lie. Sure some of the basics got covered and I did relax a bit, yet all my good intentions did not come to fruition. I am healthy and relatively happy. Things are okay, I'd say.

I love autumn though and it is nice to have evenings cooling off even when the days are hot. If the mosquito population would die off, I would be happy. There is nothing I dislike more than hearing the buzz and the slap of another onslaught of those pests.

I am also getting excited about the election countdown and looking forward in just 60days having a new president-elect staged and ready. Hey, George-parting is such sweet sorrow,NOT! Good riddance, and ciao, ciao for now! Heck yeah, we are ready for change! Bring it on!!

Later on personal preferences. Until next time...

So, what are you doing with your $600?

I know what my share of our $1500 will be going towards when it comes in the mail and it won't be a purchase. Nope, I will be trying to make ends meet. Yeah, I know the cash is suppose to buy some major item or two thar the household would not be able to otherwise see in this recession. Yes, it is finally called a recession!

Instead of buying all the things I have only dreamed of in the last few years, I will be putting my windfall toward the bills I barely cover each month. Since, my credit card bills and their monthly minimum payments doubled a few years ago as did my weekly gas cost, I will forgo the new carpeting I need for another year.

Quite frankly, getting $1200 per married couple and $300 per minor child doesn't even make an extra mortgage payment in my world. My little compact car will cost more than that to run this year. Especially, if a gallon of gas stays around $4.00.

Add to that total: the cost of health care, college tuition, interest rates on credit cards, insurance premiums, and even corn (using it as an additive in gasoline has increased the price at the supermarket) and I wonder how bad the economy can get before it gets better.

Thanks, President Bush for nothing and I mean nothing.