Over 30 years ago, I had the extreme pleasure to meet the parents of a friend when we visited him in Iowa City. Dr. Albert Hieronymus and his wife took my fiance and I into their family where we remained until his death earlier this month. A dear sweet man who was gentle as he was intelligent, real as he was talented, and loving as he was renown academically and in his community.
On the outside, Al looked like an Iowa farmer, if I had to categorize him by first impressions. Working with the Earth, did turnout to be one of his passions, but he was so much more than that. A professor at the University of Iowa until his retirement in 1987, he also developed the Iowa Basic Skills Test. He was married for 63 years to the mother of his five children, Wilfreda, was a devoted father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, and a friend to many. His door was always open and he always had an extra hand to help someone out.
I had the chance to see him for the first time since his wife died this June. More frail and sedentary(with the years taking toll on his 89 year old body), sadder and maybe lonelier than he was when he had his soul mate by his side, and yet he was still a vital force in his family's lives and a big part of all their hearts. His fragility made little difference when he greeted us at his home.
His memorial service this weekend was filled with people he touched in big and small ways. Each with a special story about what he meant to them. Although, I could not be there I shared with his son, John (still a dear friend), how I felt about the loss of this very special man. All who knew him was better for being able to share time with him. I am just one of a multitude who will miss him dearly.
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